People Let You Down

Life is getting expensive in every direction, and somehow the heaviest cost is still people. In this episode of The Heavyweight Collective, the conversation starts light with everyday life—gas prices climbing, grocery bills getting out of control, and the small wins that come with parenting when your kids start getting it right.

But as the conversation unfolds, it shifts into something deeper. A moment of discomfort sparks a real discussion about boundaries, instincts, and why ignoring red flags always comes with a price. From there, the focus turns to disappointment—friends who fall short, family who doesn’t show up the way you hoped, and the mental toll of constantly adjusting expectations.

This episode breaks down the difference between giving grace and getting played, and asks the real question: what’s worse, someone who flakes or someone who shows up and gives half effort? If you’ve ever had to protect your peace while still showing love, this conversation will hit home.

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Transcript

Welcome Back And Quick Check-In

SPEAKER_01 0:00

Welcome back, people, to another episode of We're Back. What up, folks? After these messages. Hey man.

SPEAKER_00 0:07

You know the episode. What is the message? I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 0:09

Episode 236.

SPEAKER_00 0:10

Damn, we're there. We're there? Yeah. We're there. Yeah. Wow. That's good, right?

SPEAKER_01 0:14

Oh wow. Wow. I don't want to say good evening. That feels weird.

SPEAKER_03 0:22

Because it's not.

SPEAKER_01 0:23

Niggas say what the fuck you want to say.

SPEAKER_00 0:25

Morning, niggas. Yeah.

SPEAKER_02 0:29

The Earth says hello. Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_00 0:32

It's my favorite family to deliver milk to. And that's what we're going to do.

SPEAKER_01 0:35

We're going to use what y'all just did. Welcome to episode 236. I'm your host today, Mr. Kevin Wendell, with these two gentlemen and this lovely lady. Everybody, introduce yourselves.

SPEAKER_00 0:49

I am Rachron DeLaghetto.

SPEAKER_03 0:52

I am tired.

SPEAKER_00 0:54

Exhausted.

Chasing Limited Shoes For Anniversary

SPEAKER_01 0:56

It's your boy Molito. Welcome everybody. How's everybody been doing? We missed you guys last week, but we're here together, you know. For chisel. How was y'all's y'all's uh week? The week wasn't too bad, man. I got my wife them damn shoes she wanted for her anniversary. What she wants. Oh, yeah. She wanted them damn, uh, if y'all know who Cranin is, the that powerlifting chick, her and her uh swall ass boyfriend Swall. Uh she wanted uh her shoes that had dropped. They're like a lifting shoe. Yeah, a lifting shoe. And they say just the bar on the side. So uh I I stayed up using my uh my talons with a finger hitting refresh. And uh I got a pair. And it every time I check the tracking, it's funny because it says that it's coming from Moby Dick Unlimited. That's hilarious.

SPEAKER_02 1:44

It's strange. I was like that.

SPEAKER_00 1:46

Did you spend more time refreshing with the PS5 or this?

SPEAKER_02 1:50

The what?

SPEAKER_00 1:51

The refresh rate to make sure you got them.

SPEAKER_01 1:53

The uh these because these motherfuckers show out in seven minutes.

SPEAKER_03 1:55

Okay, dang.

unknown 1:57

Dang.

SPEAKER_01 1:58

They saw them in seven minutes.

SPEAKER_03 1:59

Oh, I'm happy that you got them first though.

SPEAKER_01 2:00

Yeah, and I hope I hope she can fit them because we couldn't get two pairs. The plan was to get two pairs, multiple sizes, and then send another one back.

SPEAKER_00 2:08

But we gonna hopefully, you know. True to size, like as far as her feet.

SPEAKER_01 2:14

You know how women say they feet change after pregnancy. Yeah, you know. You know, I I was at nine. Now I gotta wear a ten because I gave he gave you a baby. Well, your daddy also six five, nigga. So don't blame me.

SPEAKER_03 2:25

Is it because of the baby or is it cuz of that nigga?

Spring Break Chaos And High Gas

SPEAKER_01 2:27

So don't blame me, nigga. You just gotta eat that. Yeah, so that was cool, man. You know that. And you know, my daughter's out on spring break and she is stressing me the food.

SPEAKER_03 2:39

Oh, she is, y'all. I I'm so happy. You know what? Yesterday I woke up and made my kids breakfast. It was a celebratory. Today is the last day, or that was the last day of spring break. So I'm so ready for niggas to go back to school.

SPEAKER_00 2:52

Yeah. We haven't even hit spring break yet.

SPEAKER_03 2:54

Yeah, really? So my five-year-old had two weeks. Yeah, but I would take her to daycare here and there. But two niggas, they had a week, and they week felt like I got another I got another week coming up, nigga.

SPEAKER_01 3:05

Thanks.

SPEAKER_03 3:06

It just ate so much, and then my teenagers had the nerve to have me feeding other people. It was kids at my house all week.

SPEAKER_01 3:13

Yeah, no, I got gas too high. All week. Gas too high and food too high. Maybe I'm happier, but I went to Sam's yesterday. I spent 80 before I got in the store because I went to the gas station first. Oh, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 3:26

You don't do that on the same day. That's impressive.

SPEAKER_01 3:28

I said, God damn. Man, that's fucking good. That's what that should have. And then I was stressing my wife out because after she was, you know how you you know scanning go, right? So she was scanning the go, and everybody like comments, like, where we at? Where we at? I said, I'm mad you. She said, we at she said something like we at 300 right now. I said, right now, yeah. I said, what can we put back, nigga?

SPEAKER_03 3:47

We ain't even made it to the meat yet.

SPEAKER_01 3:49

I said, let's put all this shit back, get some beans and rice. We finna kick it off school. Fuck. Yeah. Yeah, that 80 is like a half a tank for me. Yeah, nigga. Like, who? Oh, I didn't, you know, I thought about you because the guy in front of me, nigga, he had a uh 350 and he filled that bitch up. Did you say I saw somebody with diesel in front of me?

SPEAKER_02 4:08

Probably cost him 350. Damn.

SPEAKER_01 4:10

And the way he was looking at the pump, I said, he is stressing. Damn. I said, well, I said, at least it was a work truck. I said, at least you can write that off. I said, but yeah, that not unless it's somebody else's work. Like, you know, like you remember back in the day where the pump used to stop and you had to go pay again? It was one of them kind of. I said, nigga, if the pump stopped, you gotta start that shit over because they didn't want to make sure you want. That's a lot of money.

SPEAKER_03 4:40

It's so sad.

SPEAKER_01 4:41

Hey, La Ghetto. I'm gonna start stealing gas. That was your week.

SPEAKER_03 4:44

I wish I could.

SPEAKER_01 4:46

Huh?

SPEAKER_00 4:50

Uh that just depressed the fuck out of me.

SPEAKER_03 4:54

I gotta go get gas when I'll leave here.

SPEAKER_00 4:55

Yeah, that's what I was thinking. I was like, fuck, you're gonna have to do installments. I ain't got it on. I gotta fill the tank, but I can't.

SPEAKER_01 5:02

The firm at the gas pump.

SPEAKER_00 5:04

It's like look, brother, uh own the gas pump.

SPEAKER_03 5:07

That is true.

Kids Winning Awards And Daiso Talk

SPEAKER_00 5:07

I'm gonna give you about 15 today, and then we can go for that. Anyway, um it was cool. I uh my uh son got an award.

SPEAKER_01 5:17

That's what's up. Nice. Congrats, congrats.

SPEAKER_00 5:20

He's super smart and entitled, but uh he's he's very, very smart. And he didn't know it was we it was happening, so we surprised him, and then it's always getting me every time he wins an award because he looks so terrified. Like when they tell him that you could take pictures, he looks super fucking and I'm like, it's in your blood, like people are gonna notice you. And he was like, I just don't like the attention. I said it's gonna happen. Then I start looking at his hair and I'm like, this nigga's hair is because I just paid for your haircut and it's already grown the fuck back. Like, that's fucking crazy.

SPEAKER_01 5:52

Look at men's look here. It's either your hair or gas. Yeah, like and we gotta get around.

SPEAKER_02 5:57

For real.

SPEAKER_00 5:59

Oh, my daughter Ava also got her her grades up because she was struggling a little bit because she's usually the youngest in her class, but she her grades have come up tremendously. It was nice to see that. She's uh very, very angry with me because I won't take her to DISO.

SPEAKER_01 6:13

So take her where?

SPEAKER_00 6:15

Daiso, that uh the the Japanese store where you can get like all the stuff.

SPEAKER_01 6:21

Oh, yeah, I don't know about that. Don't say nothing else. Well, you know now.

SPEAKER_00 6:26

It's called Daiso. It's coming up, so and it yeah, they they specialize in import. So you like all the foods that you can get. They got women there too.

SPEAKER_01 6:37

Man, you can't put that. Can we redact that? Like we put out something. I didn't I didn't say they're illegally.

SPEAKER_03 6:47

You know, if they were there, they'd be illegal.

SPEAKER_02 6:49

No, not necessarily. I don't know. You know? Okay, they couldn't. They can be on Visa.

SPEAKER_03 6:54

That's not what they do in there. Not on Visa. I'm not saying they're illegal. The sale of them is illegal.

The Uncomfortable Massage Story

SPEAKER_01 6:59

I know there's no trafficking or they can be on Visa. I never said we were they they we were selling them. You go, you know, that's how you approach them. Oh my gosh, I had a You're talking about like at the grocery store. Yeah. Uh my bad.

SPEAKER_03 7:10

Yeah. I had a very uncomfortable massage.

SPEAKER_01 7:14

Wait, wait a minute. Hold up.

SPEAKER_03 7:16

Speaking of inappropriate.

SPEAKER_01 7:18

Was it a was it a man?

SPEAKER_03 7:20

It was a man. I don't know I don't even I brought it up, but I don't know if talking about it. Man, you gotta tell us absolutely. I know, I know, I know.

SPEAKER_02 7:29

It was pretty uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_03 7:30

I don't know. He was weird. Maybe I just thought he was weird. But long story short, so he comes to a part where he's massaging me, and I kind of feel like this motion going down my back. So that can only be happening. You're either behind me and you're doing this, or you're over me and you're doing this. Or you can have long armed. No, I seen him before he started. He wasn't.

SPEAKER_01 7:47

I was trying to give him some great machine.

SPEAKER_03 7:50

Um, and so in the midst of that, so I'm laying on the table, my head is in the thing, and then my hair is in a ponytail. And like very softly on my ponytail, I can feel something.

SPEAKER_01 8:03

And I'm just like he thought his uh his uh uh Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 8:07

I was I I mean I could be wrong to this day. Maybe that was his stomach, but still, that was just too close. I don't know.

SPEAKER_00 8:13

Wait a minute.

SPEAKER_03 8:14

So did you wear the bigger? Did you get the second baseball?

SPEAKER_01 8:19

Did you get the second baseball? Just to clarify. Did you what did you think was grazing you?

SPEAKER_03 8:24

I'm just confused about how his stomach in this you got that was very uncomfortable.

SPEAKER_01 8:29

But he should have he should have had clothes on. He did, y'all.

SPEAKER_03 8:32

What the fuck? I just mean in general. I don't want no man in front of me like that. Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_01 8:37

What did you think was grazing you? His stomach was like. So you think he was standing over you just even felt his stomach?

SPEAKER_03 8:42

Like, I don't know. In that area, I don't want any of him touching me.

SPEAKER_01 8:45

But it But his hands were touching.

SPEAKER_03 8:47

It made no, you know what I mean. I don't want any of his body to touch me. But the feel of it, the the motion on my back paired with me feeling something here. I'm like, that's a good one. So his shit.

SPEAKER_00 8:57

Okay, let me ask you this. Was he a big guy? Like uh he was small, so he like him like five, seven, five.

SPEAKER_03 9:04

Why are you like I'm crazy for this?

SPEAKER_02 9:06

You're not crazy.

SPEAKER_00 9:07

I'm just trying to get a clarification. Because if he was a big guy, it could have been his stomach. I would say I usually don't see no no offense.

SPEAKER_01 9:15

Fat massousli. I just got one question. What were his thumbs in or out? Like so was his thumb.

SPEAKER_03 9:25

Oh, you're so smart.

SPEAKER_01 9:26

Was his thumb?

SPEAKER_03 9:27

I don't know. That I don't know. I just know that this was the most.

SPEAKER_01 9:30

Because if his thumbs was close to your spine, then you know he was behind. Yeah. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 9:34

So what the fuck did I feel? I don't the Holy Spirit? Hey, did you uh That could be true on the Holy Spirit?

SPEAKER_01 9:40

I don't know if that's I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 9:41

In the moment, I just kind of moved around a little bit.

SPEAKER_00 9:44

At an establishment? I was gonna ask if he tipped him.

SPEAKER_03 9:51

We're not gonna play it. He tried to tip me, clearly.

SPEAKER_01 9:54

Jesus. It wasn't like one of them because I went to a Japanese place. And I don't want to like, but it was like I went in and I was like, this feels illegal. This feels illegal.

SPEAKER_03 10:09

Well, it was a little weird. Like, I don't know. It was an establishment. Me and my best friends went. We were we were we were in Arizona.

SPEAKER_01 10:15

Well they could get some crazy shit on the street.

SPEAKER_03 10:17

One of our little activities we did was we went and had massages, and I don't know. Well, don't go. Literally. Literally.

SPEAKER_00 10:27

Literally. That's a hell of a that's a hell of a way of saying statement, yes.

SPEAKER_03 10:32

I genuinely, I don't know. I somebody said something like about inappropriateness, and that's what made me think of it. But I rather No, you gotta speak your truth.

SPEAKER_00 10:39

I mean you felt like you were the wrong way.

SPEAKER_01 10:41

Thanks for sharing. If you feel like you're assaulted, we know we we we stand behind you.

SPEAKER_02 10:46

Oh no, I don't think it's or over.

SPEAKER_01 10:48

No, I no, I'll take the back. I'm gonna stand next to you so you can see me.

SPEAKER_02 10:51

So you don't feel any kind of way.

SPEAKER_01 10:54

I I think that uh that sums up the week there. Sexual assault. And y'all thought y'all thought we said asking they imported. Yeah, you're right. My bad.

SPEAKER_03 11:09

It was just a little weird. It's a little weird. I would have shot that man.

SPEAKER_00 11:13

Uh, I think, damn, today we're not a happy ending. I guess we're gonna be able to do that. That's an awkward ending.

Times People Let You Down

SPEAKER_01 11:17

We can kind of lead into what we're gonna be talking about. Self-defensive.

SPEAKER_03 11:22

Yes, exactly.

SPEAKER_01 11:23

Like, do you guys, what's the time when somebody completely lets you down? But looking back, it's kind of funny. I could give you one for me.

SPEAKER_03 11:31

Damn, okay.

SPEAKER_01 11:32

Go ahead. Get into it. Let's get into it. That nigga ain't shit.

SPEAKER_00 11:40

Did you have kickboxing this week?

SPEAKER_03 11:45

Niggas ain't shit. Oh, that was funny. See, it's funny now. Come on. Come on, Sharon. Tell us. I won't tell the stories, but No.

unknown 11:54

Come on.

SPEAKER_01 11:55

I'll tell my, I guess, about my my dad. It was on uh Father's Day. So I was trying to be a good uh good little good little tyke. A good little what? Good little tyke. Made him some uh sandwiches and some uh had some cashews. I didn't know how to fucking cook nothing. I was like a little kid. And I remember seeing this nigga walking down the street, like leaving. And I was just like, this nigga didn't even tell me he's leaving. It was on Father's Day. On Father's Day. And then I think he came back like the next day, like just drunk. And I was just like, This nigga did Father's Day for him.

SPEAKER_03 12:34

Hey, I've had some Mother's Days away from my kids.

SPEAKER_01 12:38

Because he knew what the fuck he was doing.

SPEAKER_02 12:40

He didn't even say shit to me. I just standing here like this nigga believe.

SPEAKER_00 12:47

That's funny. First day that I pictured you grown making sandwiches.

SPEAKER_01 12:51

Like, I was like, Oh, if he did that, I would have been like, well, nigga, fuck it.

SPEAKER_00 12:54

Like, that's what you want to do. Right.

SPEAKER_01 12:56

I could have took you out. I guess I got lunch tomorrow, nigga. That's funny. Oh shit. I don't know. I don't know if I can answer that. Really? I know. I feel like that's that's a tough one.

SPEAKER_00 13:08

Mine's just I plead the fifth because it has to do with the podcast.

SPEAKER_03 13:12

Oh? No, let's get into it.

SPEAKER_00 13:16

Just say past members. Uh. Oh, okay. And me la thinking it was funny after the fact. Okay. So, but in the in the moment, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 13:24

I mean, if you want to.

SPEAKER_00 13:25

Well, I'm just saying, it's the it you just realize certain situations in the moment, you're like, what the fuck? And then afterwards you just kind of chuckle about it.

SPEAKER_03 13:33

Yeah. I watch moments like that. I don't know. I used to have a friend, homegirl. Um, she would like, she would either borrow money from me or she would ask me to like get her weed from this guy that I that I knew or whatever, right?

SPEAKER_01 13:52

So she'd be in the plug plug.

Borrowing Money And Getting Shorted

SPEAKER_03 13:55

So I would either get the sack for her and give it to her the next day or whatever once she buy my job or whatever, okay? Um, or she borrowed, let's say she borrowed$20. This motherfucker would pay me back, like, I only have$13, or I only have 16. Like, she always would borrow 10 and pay me back 7. 20, pay me back 14. Like, that was really a letdown at the time, but you know, it would just like.

SPEAKER_01 14:24

I think that's just the same lesson over and over again. You just didn't catch it.

SPEAKER_03 14:27

Yeah, I did it. I mean, I think.

SPEAKER_01 14:28

You know what my lesson is to that? What's that? Because I always thought that was funny when motherfuckers would ask me that. Hey, let me borrow like seven dollars. I'm like, nigga, you ain't borrowing shit. I'm gonna give you 20 and don't even try to tell me you give me a bit. Nigga, if you ask you for seven, you ain't gonna have 20. Like stop.

SPEAKER_03 14:44

My cousin was saying the other day, he was like, if a nigga asked me for$20, I'm gonna tell him no, because if you don't got the$20 to do what you're trying to do, you don't need to fucking do it. And I'm like, damn, that's actually very true.

SPEAKER_01 14:55

Sometimes I go, I understand why you want to go get that drink.

SPEAKER_03 14:59

Hell no. But yeah, I mean, it's funny now, just because like I stopped, I would never can I get that 20. It's hard for me to. I don't like asking for my own money back. I think that's so weird. Like, I would never let you borrow money again, but I'm not gonna be that person who's like, hey, that good that I let you hold. Like, like clearly, we'd have talked seven times and you ain't gave it back.

SPEAKER_02 15:26

I have no problem.

SPEAKER_01 15:30

I have well one thing, uh I'm not asking for my money. One thing they ever taught me is that you have to get comfortable, have an uncomfortable conversation. So I have no problem. Hey, hey, Pimp, remember uh it's Friday was last Friday. Don't let no Friday pass, nigga.

SPEAKER_00 15:44

You ever stand in line at the gas station and hear somebody pay for gas and you say, What is that for like you got a lawnmower or something? That's not gonna that's not gonna get you. Yeah, you're like, what the fuck?

SPEAKER_01 15:55

No, see, I don't I don't judge them niggas because I do the same shit. It's it's well, you gonna be at the gas. I'll be my mama do that.

SPEAKER_03 16:01

It's like you're gonna be back at the gas station.

SPEAKER_01 16:03

This is what I do, this is what I do, this dude.

SPEAKER_03 16:04

So you're not sending more.

SPEAKER_01 16:05

So I'd be like, if I don't have enough gas to get to Sam's or Costco, I put just enough in there to get to see how much is it?

SPEAKER_02 16:13

That's different.

SPEAKER_01 16:13

Like, give me two dollars, nigga.

SPEAKER_02 16:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 16:15

Two dollars?

SPEAKER_02 16:16

No. Yeah, I'm going up the street. That's different. Give me two dollars. I don't need a whole gallon. I just gotta make sure I don't fucking break down.

SPEAKER_01 16:24

So you are okay, because I've seen a car do that where I was like, but that's different.

SPEAKER_03 16:29

Yeah, you're going to go fill it up. I'm saying people that literally just put that in their car and then gotta get gas again. Go to the next station. Go to the next station.

SPEAKER_01 16:37

Just get to the next station, player.

SPEAKER_03 16:39

You would have spending more money in gas. You buying gas all week.

SPEAKER_01 16:42

Because I mean, sometimes I'm in a situation where I don't have time to go, and I I gotta just get like Phoenix somewhere quick. So I'm like, man, just give me five dollars. Let me go drop her ass off. And after I drop her off, I'll go over here and so about when I get her.

SPEAKER_03 16:54

You always on your way to Sam's though. I feel like I do that too.

SPEAKER_01 16:58

Oh make a or sometimes do it just enough to get to work that day. Because I don't plan on being there the next day.

SPEAKER_00 17:05

Make an app and call it nigga, really? Like, really, nigga? Like, yeah, yeah, I did it.

SPEAKER_01 17:13

Well, you guys completely let me down on that question.

SPEAKER_02 17:19

I'm just wondering, like, where are we gonna go from here? I'm just saying, I'm pretty sure I don't give a fuck that's funny.

SPEAKER_01 17:24

I'm pretty sure I've been I I know I've been let down a lot. I just don't I try not to remember you like, and it ain't funny.

SPEAKER_04 17:29

Yeah, that's like that's the part. It's not fucking funny still.

Reliability Versus Expectations Debate

SPEAKER_01 17:34

All right, but how how about this? Do you think people suck at being reliable, or do we just have too high of expectations? I think it's a combination of both.

SPEAKER_03 17:44

People fucking suck.

SPEAKER_01 17:45

God damn, Sharon. Let's get let's get into it. She she in here with some strong feelings today. God damn.

SPEAKER_00 17:54

She snorted. She did it. Did we catch that?

SPEAKER_02 17:59

That's the it's the it always cleared up.

SPEAKER_03 18:01

I need to compose myself.

SPEAKER_02 18:02

No, you don't. Oh shit. I like unhinged Sharon.

SPEAKER_01 18:07

Damn.

SPEAKER_03 18:10

Damn. Turn up, turn up. Kevin, give her a drink. I take that now for real. I do think that people suck. And I think the reason why people suck is because, like, like what you said, the second part to that was, or do we have too high of expectations? People don't have high expectations for themselves, and that's why they suck.

SPEAKER_01 18:26

Wait, hey, hey. I'm sorry. Hey, nigga. That's really that's why I feel like speak for yourself, nigga. I don't have high expectations.

SPEAKER_03 18:32

Okay, that's you, but I'm saying people in general, the people that we're talking about that suck or don't suck.

SPEAKER_01 18:38

Um Shirah, get your head in the game.

SPEAKER_03 18:43

Pause, right?

SPEAKER_01 18:46

I don't think I don't think you I don't think you have to pause. Like if we said that, yes.

SPEAKER_02 18:52

Ever since you said that stomach grazed her ponytail, her head been somewhere else. Oh, sheesh, you're dumb. She's her head been somewhere. What was I talking about?

SPEAKER_03 19:00

People suck because they don't have so if you don't have high expectations for yourself and and the way you present yourself in this world, then you're going to be a sucky person and you're gonna treat people worse than you treat yourself. So that's why I think people suck.

SPEAKER_01 19:15

I agree with all that, but I also feel like you that's why you you adjust your circle to people who are at your level.

SPEAKER_03 19:22

Of course. Yeah. Of course. Mandatory.

SPEAKER_01 19:26

You know what I'm saying? Because you can't you can't be a person that holds yourself accountable and then be around people that don't give a fuck or no. Because people people that don't give a fuck is the reason why you start fucking up. Because sometimes I uh adjust my expectations to people. Well keep mine low, nigga. Then I'll never let you down. You're like, this nigga's overachieving. Yeah, keep it low.

SPEAKER_03 19:51

You're so stupid.

SPEAKER_01 19:53

Well, well, there's some people you know where you're like, I don't expect so you know, you adjust. That's like what niggas, hey man, you think Andy? I said, you could ask him. I kind of know what he's gonna say, but yeah, you could ask him. I said, I could be wrong, you know. It's gonna be a no, nigga. He's not leaving his house for this shit.

SPEAKER_00 20:20

I'll just say I don't have high expectations of many, but it's usually based on trial and error. So you just be like, all right, I'm gonna give you a couple of times. Okay. And once this, all right, nigga, I just know where to keep you.

SPEAKER_03 20:34

And that's like that goes back. That's how I feel like when we were talking about the borrowing money. Like, I yeah, you did some bullshit a couple times, but you borrow money from me.

SPEAKER_01 20:42

But you ain't gonna trick me twice. Yeah, yeah. Yeah.

Boundaries, Grace, And Self-Awareness

SPEAKER_03 20:45

I feel like comes. I'm gonna give people grace. Everybody gets grace. I get grace from so I'm gonna give grace, right? So it might be a couple times because we all things are circumstantial, right?

SPEAKER_04 20:57

So we fucking anywho, um, things can be circumstantial.

SPEAKER_03 21:06

So I'm gonna give you grace, but you're not gonna take advantage. Yeah, I just think that I just wish people had self-awareness and because I a person that is self-aware and a certain level of certain self-respect, they're gonna pour that into their relationships. That's just natural. And so that's how you identify those people, but you know, everybody don't have to be on that level with you too.

SPEAKER_01 21:29

But you also gotta understand that setting boundaries is healthy, yeah, it is, and so like I'm a I've I've I've I've put you in a box that you have shown that you can be maintained in, and I'm not gonna give you more space than what you can actually obtain.

SPEAKER_03 21:45

Things deserve better, too.

SPEAKER_01 21:47

Sometimes we gotta look at boundaries too. Like we also have to respect boundaries. Like, I think sometimes we set up a lot of things to be like, oh, I put boundaries up, but it's like, oh yeah, my boundaries might not align with your. Oh, that's right. So it's like, okay, so now we gotta boundary the boundary. Like I don't think you gotta bound to boundary. You gotta just r r respect everyone's decision as is. I think that that right there is just well is making the line. That's where my sliding scale is, because it's like with the borrower money, it's like some motherfuckers, I'm like, you're not borrowing this. Like I can't let you borrow this from your like here, nigga. Like, or if I don't got it, I don't got it. Like, I'm not gonna give you what I can't give. You know what I mean? My thing is I can't, I can't I can't give the niggas that I feel like on constant show up. You can't wait. What you mean? Oh no, no, no. They can show up, but it'll be like No, no, the nigga that you can't. No, nigga, they're gonna keep asking it.

SPEAKER_03 22:40

Oh no, they're gonna be like, Oh, that's a okay, so But here's what you do.

SPEAKER_01 22:43

Nah, I don't have it. Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 22:46

I I learned a long time ago to not be so like, like, oh, can I borrow this? Yeah, like, because that's my genuine, like, oh yeah, you can borrow this, especially if you telling me the date you're gonna give it back and all that. Like now I'm very like, I always make it like, all right, like because I want you to feel like because people start to, and that's what's fucked up about people, because just because I gave it to you with ease doesn't mean I don't need it back. Yeah, and that's what I think people forget. I think all my I don't care if if it's ten dollars. Like, if you give me ten dollars, I owe you ten dollars, period, and you're gonna get your ten dollars back. But people start to look at it like, oh, like she didn't really trip when she gave me this ten dollars, so she must not know. Why would you think that?

SPEAKER_01 23:32

Yeah, it was ten dollars when you asked for it, and that was funky. There's some interest too. All of a sudden it's funky.

SPEAKER_03 23:39

All of a sudden it's a funky ten dollars.

SPEAKER_01 23:42

It wasn't funky when you needed that shit, though.

SPEAKER_03 23:43

No, for real. I just I don't that that gets me like hot because like the the borrowing money shit. I don't say this to the camera.

SPEAKER_01 23:51

I get you go ahead because I gotta let me say this. Hey, just because of what I'm saying don't mean I got it to give, so don't call me.

SPEAKER_03 23:58

That's why literally. Or people watch you spend your own money and think you got it for somebody else. I'm spending my money, I could be irresponsible. That's what I'll say. I could literally be irresponsible. You can see me spending money like, oh, she got it. No, I just am very irresponsible. My bills ain't paid. What if what if that's the case?

SPEAKER_01 24:17

Damn. I hope that's not the case.

SPEAKER_02 24:19

You know it's not.

SPEAKER_03 24:20

What if I'm outside and my lights is off at home?

SPEAKER_01 24:22

I hope not. You got kids.

SPEAKER_03 24:24

No, you know that. All right.

SPEAKER_01 24:25

You already know these bills uh it's possible.

SPEAKER_00 24:28

Uh now if I'm outside, but I will payment arrangement anything. Gas sum for me.

SPEAKER_03 24:35

Well, that's anything could get a payment arrangement. Anyone could get it.

SPEAKER_01 24:40

I was at Sam's. I was at Sam's like, maybe I should get this goddamn card because fuck I don't like credit cards. Cost too much, goddamn.

unknown 24:49

Damn.

Inner Circle Trust And Phone On Silent

SPEAKER_01 24:49

Oh shit. Oh, like the gas card, credit card? Just a Sam's card, nigga. Um just cost him. What happened? Oh, you went down?

SPEAKER_04 24:56

It was he really got it.

SPEAKER_03 25:02

God damn. I just looked up and I was like, oh, wait. No, that was funny. You should have saw it in action. It's face kind of that shit just shifted.

SPEAKER_01 25:11

Yeah, but let's mix them up. So see who gets it here.

SPEAKER_03 25:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:15

No, I'm gonna keep the one I got.

SPEAKER_03 25:17

But yeah, I'm sorry. That just really I'm passionate about that.

SPEAKER_01 25:20

But yeah, but people you but you're right though, because people will see how you spin it and just assume you got because I know. Yeah, because I've had family talking about, oh, I know y'all, y'all living good.

SPEAKER_03 25:28

You tell me I'm rich all the time.

SPEAKER_01 25:30

You are.

SPEAKER_00 25:31

Uh you have a sunroom.

SPEAKER_03 25:33

You got a sunroom, nigga. What the shut?

SPEAKER_00 25:37

You got a sunroom and you have so in your house.

SPEAKER_03 25:40

You have negettes catering.

SPEAKER_00 25:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 25:43

Y'all are so annoying.

SPEAKER_01 25:45

What did you say, like, I live in the the upper bed side, and I'm like, that only is I said I what did I say?

SPEAKER_03 25:52

I said I live in the upper hood. Upper hood. Like, you know what I mean.

SPEAKER_01 25:56

The upper hood is crazy.

SPEAKER_03 25:57

You can hear gunshots, but they're in the distance. Yeah, they're over there. I'm not in spirit.

SPEAKER_01 26:02

You sound like me. I'm like, no, nigga. You're like, oh, are you saying I'm over? I live in the east side. I'm not where they do the fuckery. It's quiet in my neighborhood. So what's your rule now for uh not getting let down anymore?

SPEAKER_03 26:18

Don't play with that.

SPEAKER_01 26:18

Don't happen here.

SPEAKER_03 26:20

I don't I don't have friends.

SPEAKER_01 26:22

I thought I was a friend.

SPEAKER_03 26:23

I just don't talk to people. No.

SPEAKER_01 26:26

Damn.

SPEAKER_03 26:26

I just leave my friends. No, you know that's not disturbed.

SPEAKER_01 26:29

That's let's go back to that first question. Now I have an answer.

SPEAKER_02 26:38

Oh, that's funny.

SPEAKER_01 26:40

I mean, I just I just I I I have very low expectations in general. Damn, that makes me think of fucking uh TV lowered expectations. Because I I don't I don't um I don't expect a lot from people because I don't want people to expect a lot from me. So I I just I I match energies.

SPEAKER_03 26:57

So if I if I reach out Are you talking about random people? Let's talk about the people that are in your life.

SPEAKER_01 27:02

I'm talking about people in my circle.

SPEAKER_03 27:03

Oh, you don't have high expectations for the people in your circle?

SPEAKER_01 27:06

Not not not more than what they'd have for me. I think it's standard. I'm my I'm my standard's my standard, so I don't perceive it as high. So like I wouldn't ask anything from I wouldn't ask anything of any one of you guys that I wouldn't be able to wouldn't be willing to do myself for that. So I don't see that as a high expectation. I just see that as an expectation of that's funny. I like that when you're like, should I call this nigga? Because one day he might ask me, oh, should you just I mean that's you can think of stuff that we probably do feel.

SPEAKER_03 27:34

Like I didn't think about it. Yeah, that makes sense. Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 27:37

There's certain people I just use for interpreting.

SPEAKER_03 27:39

What does that mean?

SPEAKER_00 27:42

If I need to go to certain hoods or I got you.

SPEAKER_01 27:45

Neighborhoods or I thought you meant like show Hey Otani's interpretation. Put some on the boots.

SPEAKER_02 27:52

I'll also say make sure your loud is in your pocket, okay?

SPEAKER_00 27:55

I don't I don't know the the understood practices around here.

SPEAKER_03 27:59

Let me um what's the question again? I'm sorry.

SPEAKER_00 28:01

Oh Lord.

SPEAKER_03 28:02

Because I I I wanted to ask you.

SPEAKER_01 28:03

What's your rule now for not getting let down anymore? Oh I thought you answered. He was like, don't play with me.

SPEAKER_03 28:09

No, I didn't say that, huh? Don't play with me. I don't want nobody. Don't I really do mean that from the bottom of my heart? I'm like dead ass.

SPEAKER_01 28:17

It's the way your facial features change so quick.

SPEAKER_02 28:21

Me? Serious because I'm not sure.

SPEAKER_00 28:22

Yeah, it goes from serious, it goes serious real quick.

SPEAKER_01 28:26

She's like, she'll smile at her.

SPEAKER_00 28:29

Like, oh shit.

SPEAKER_03 28:31

Send damn. Don't because I want to right now, I mean it. Like, don't play with me.

SPEAKER_01 28:35

She said, like, she got a razor blade in her hair.

SPEAKER_03 28:37

Yeah, like I might.

SPEAKER_01 28:39

I believe you.

SPEAKER_03 28:40

I mean.

SPEAKER_02 28:41

You from the upper hood.

SPEAKER_03 28:45

I am. But no, I just I also feel like, I mean, like when you're talking about like people uh not having high expectations for people, I don't have high expectations for people, but I have like a circle of trust, right? Yeah, within that circle of trust, whatever that looks like, like I have really rich relationships with people. Not a lot of people, but the ones that I have, they're very like nourishing for me, you know? And so I hold on to those, and then everything else, it's like I don't really need like to be honest, um, because I'm so rich over here in relationship with that, but I don't know. I just feel like do not disappear in real life. It's not just a thing on your phone, it's it's a real life.

SPEAKER_01 29:29

That shit is peaceful. I'm telling you right now.

SPEAKER_03 29:30

It's a nice, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 29:31

That shit is peaceful. I think I told you was that last week I told you, nigga, I just realized my phone been on silent for four days. I didn't even realize I've just been peaceful.

Bible Analogies And Comedy Break

SPEAKER_03 29:41

It's nice.

SPEAKER_01 29:43

I love that way, too.

SPEAKER_03 29:44

I think that you can be like, and I'm a friendly person, but I think I always think of like like in the Bible, Jesus had the 12 disciples, but when it was like when he knew what was coming or whatever, and he was in the garden and he went to pray, he only took three of them. And like he only talked to those three. Oh, those were homies, homies, those was those was, yeah, them was the ones, right?

SPEAKER_01 30:05

The inner nigga, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 30:09

He only took, yeah, like ripping. Yeah, not for real. Because one of the niggas that was over there, it did not be one of the niggas. That's really real. It's really a thing.

SPEAKER_04 30:21

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 30:22

But you know, he took his three people, and I I I always think like that. I just think you know how many niggas you can get to go to church and you start I know I heard them to actually start telling the Bible stories. Nigga, if they took his he took his day ones with him into the garden. Word shit.

SPEAKER_00 30:38

Yeah, you know, if they talk more like this, nigga, I'll be because he knew he knew them niggas over there was a little weird. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No other niggas acting funny type, you know. Nigga, that's the same shit happened to me.

SPEAKER_03 30:48

Like, what for real, y'all. So you gotta have your people, you know? Yeah, that's how I feel. You gotta have your people.

SPEAKER_00 30:59

He'd read up on this nigga, Jesus.

SPEAKER_03 31:01

You do.

SPEAKER_01 31:01

That's funny that makes me think like he had some some some niggas was not on his side though.

SPEAKER_04 31:08

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 31:08

When he was when he went to walk out on the water, because he was like, all you gotta do is believe, and all them niggas just. They were scared. It's like I was spinning right here.

SPEAKER_03 31:18

We can go all day because they were scary. That's what that was. You can't have no scary niggas around you.

SPEAKER_01 31:24

That's what niggas go to.

SPEAKER_03 31:25

He told him, he said, he told him, come to me. He stepped out of the boat and was like, oh. Oh, you know. Oh, you ain't with me. And he said, I just told him, he said, why you lose faith? Like, nigga, you see me standing in the middle of the water. That was Jesus being you see me healing all these people every day. He was disappointed.

SPEAKER_01 31:44

He was like, he answered the first question. Like, look at look at this nigga.

SPEAKER_02 31:51

For real.

SPEAKER_00 31:52

I ain't gonna hold you though. If if this was uh skit, that'd be another word was I think you get more This should be a skit. That should be hilarious.

SPEAKER_03 32:02

Should I start telling Bible stories like that?

SPEAKER_01 32:04

That's yeah, it'd be better than that one guy who's just crib walked with the Bible because the devil's a motherfucking life.

SPEAKER_02 32:14

Oh my gosh, I remember that was crazy. That was crazy. That was actually crazy. Hell no.

SPEAKER_01 32:21

Oh, Druski's hilarious. Drewski is out of his mind. I'm like, hey, that dude.

SPEAKER_03 32:26

Drewski is the funniest nigga. Drewski, if you ever see this, you the funniest nigga.

SPEAKER_01 32:32

I was like, you right.

SPEAKER_03 32:34

It was when he was doing like his eyes and like looking straight at the camera. That was so accurate. I fuck with Drusky. I hit dog a holler.

SPEAKER_01 32:42

I find it funny how the name of it. Well, he he wasn't even making sense. But y'all said that bitch made sense what you saw.

SPEAKER_03 32:48

Right. Right.

SPEAKER_01 32:50

So which is it?

SPEAKER_03 32:51

No, the the little pyrotechnics.

SPEAKER_01 32:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 32:54

And but no, did you hear what he was playing the song he was playing, though?

SPEAKER_01 32:58

What was it?

SPEAKER_03 32:59

Um, that um first day out by T Gresley, and he had a lot of things.

SPEAKER_01 33:06

Oh, yeah, I did hear that. That's right.

SPEAKER_03 33:08

Because I thought I was tripping. I'm like, why is this song playing? And she danced. That was funny.

SPEAKER_01 33:14

Oh, Andrewski. What you got, Andy? What was the question? That's it. What's your rule for your rule for not getting let down?

SPEAKER_00 33:22

Oh, I I thought I answered that already. Yeah, I always just keep my distance, and I don't I don't have any high expectation. I give you a couple times. Once I learn that, that's where I keep you. I always keep you there.

SPEAKER_01 33:32

Even on defense? When he when he's not hitting the shot, you close out.

SPEAKER_00 33:36

You just triggered my 2K. I just I answer that. That's the reason why I keep niggas on mute. Because he's gonna hit the shot every time.

SPEAKER_01 33:50

Speaking of, I turned my guy, I turned goddamn chat on Fortnite. I said, I don't know why I did this. I had to cut that shit off.

SPEAKER_00 33:55

Oh shit, I did that on a battlefield. I didn't realize it was, and the somebody was like, Flo sicker, flow sicker, come revive me. I said, Who the fuck is this? Jesus?

SPEAKER_01 34:09

I had a motherfucker, he was he was typing. Oh lord.

SPEAKER_02 34:12

And the group, so you know how uh your squat box? Yeah, Mo, I'm right here. Pick me up. I'm nowhere near you. I'm not coming back to get you cut. Y'all sound old.

SPEAKER_03 34:25

I hope y'all know that.

SPEAKER_01 34:26

I am old, nigga. I'm proud of me. And I'm I'm about to be 40, nigga.

SPEAKER_03 34:30

Hey, man.

SPEAKER_01 34:31

Should have said each other.

SPEAKER_03 34:32

What's the alternative to getting old?

SPEAKER_01 34:34

Dying.

SPEAKER_03 34:35

Exactly. So I'm like, oh, I love being older. Getting older.

SPEAKER_01 34:39

Oh no. I don't.

SPEAKER_03 34:41

What do you say?

SPEAKER_01 34:43

Depends on what it's for. Don't worry about it.

SPEAKER_03 34:46

I'm gonna move past it.

Flakers Versus Half Effort Show-Ups

SPEAKER_01 34:48

Hey, this is my last one. I'm gonna say, who's worse? Someone who flakes or someone who shows up and half-asses it. The flaker is worse. I don't know. I don't know. It depends on the circumstance. Nah, I'll still say the fuck because at least if you if if you half-ass at least you helping sell. There's some effort. Hear me out. Yeah. There's some effort.

SPEAKER_00 35:08

I'll give you an example. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 35:10

Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 35:11

A mother shows up to a school, fucked up. She showed up. But the emperor was there.

SPEAKER_03 35:21

That is a very good example.

SPEAKER_01 35:22

That is an emperor. But it sounds like the intentions were good.

SPEAKER_00 35:25

But what I'm saying is the kid in that moment might just say, please don't fucking show up like this. It would be better if you didn't show up.

SPEAKER_03 35:32

Yeah. And you know what? Yeah.

SPEAKER_00 35:35

That's true.

SPEAKER_03 35:36

And you see, that's evident in like, not to get deep, but that's evident in like absent parents versus the parents that have the kids waiting at the door all the time.

SPEAKER_01 35:46

I don't want to be an absent parent so bad.

SPEAKER_03 35:48

Stop. I'm being serious.

SPEAKER_01 35:50

Like stressful.

SPEAKER_03 35:51

The parent that is halfway in the kid's life and halfway out, and you know, and then there's just a parent where they don't know who that motherfucker is, and then that's just their life.

SPEAKER_01 36:00

So I I think the one that's completely absent is a little bit better than the one that's that's because they're not just letting the kids in that situation completely absent is better because now you're playing with the kids in front of the kids. Exactly.

SPEAKER_00 36:14

And that's yeah, not to get too personal, but that's my exact circumstance. If a motherfuckers show up, then it's like, I would have preferred you didn't show up.

SPEAKER_03 36:23

Yeah. So let's say um Well, I mean, that yeah, that's pretty deep death. I think we got the answer. So you well, that's those answers.

SPEAKER_01 36:33

Because that's only on the uh side like that.

SPEAKER_03 36:35

But if you're like if we're talking about like a job, right?

SPEAKER_01 36:37

We got friends, you ain't gonna, they ain't gonna do, they ain't gonna be in the same expectation as that.

SPEAKER_03 36:42

So let's say you're moving. Use a different example.

SPEAKER_01 36:44

Oh, don't call me.

SPEAKER_03 36:45

Let's say you're moving.

SPEAKER_01 36:46

I'm flaked. No, he's gonna flake Well, you know what's funny is I asked somebody this, and I was like, who would you in your phone would you call like to help you change your tire? And he was like, uh I don't nobody because I don't want nobody ever calling me.

SPEAKER_03 37:01

I was like, oh shit, okay.

SPEAKER_00 37:02

It's honesty.

SPEAKER_03 37:04

If if you were moving, would you rather the person to have come and not really move shit, not really helping pick shit up? But but they sure but they do move some stuff. Like maybe, like maybe it's another guy and you expect him to help you with the heavy lifting, but he over here just with that nigga.

SPEAKER_01 37:23

I go, hey, you know what? Go get lunch.

SPEAKER_03 37:29

So you're gonna still put him, you're gonna still get some use out of them.

SPEAKER_01 37:34

Yeah, damn.

SPEAKER_00 37:36

Oh man, I just tired of full circuits. Like, here's$20. Don't give it back. Just go back.

SPEAKER_03 37:43

Don't give it back.

SPEAKER_01 37:44

Hey, don't worry about coming back. Just because they ain't gonna pay for shit now. Hell no. That's just I'm gonna write him at Chick-fil-A.

SPEAKER_00 37:51

In that moment, I might pay for peace.

SPEAKER_01 37:53

Chick-fil-A, nigga?

SPEAKER_02 37:54

You could not eat Chick-fil-A for$20.

SPEAKER_00 37:56

I mean, you can get like a yogurt.

SPEAKER_02 37:58

Maybe a little Caesars.

SPEAKER_01 38:02

A parfait. A drink. No, I mean, I mean, for one person, you get a kid's meal, you're fine.

Dinner Bills And Expensive Cocktails

SPEAKER_03 38:08

My dumb ass best friend last night. But then why should you that be a dumb ass? We went and had dinner at Mario's. We always do like this. So we once a month, we do Mario's for dinner. It was like 7:30 for our nightcap. But we went to that's what I was like. I thought about it. I was like, damn, because dinner reservations was a little bit more. Sunny step up.

SPEAKER_01 38:27

That's some old shit.

SPEAKER_03 38:28

I laughed to myself because I'm like, dang, I'm really saying nightcap. It was literally eight. Like I remember that. When we were leaving, it was eight o'clock.

SPEAKER_01 38:35

There was niggas getting ready to leave the house. Yeah, it was.

SPEAKER_03 38:37

Yeah, no, seriously. When we walked into Mission Inn, it was just bare. We were like, and it was barely eight o'clock.

SPEAKER_01 38:43

Still setting.

SPEAKER_03 38:43

Uh-huh. It was. But we sat down there and we always get like a drink or two or whatever. And usually, like honestly, there, when there's a lot of people, somebody like always ends up buying us a drink. Like that kind of always ends up. But nevertheless, this night, it was just me and her. She's like, I'm gonna have it.

SPEAKER_01 39:02

It felt like that.

SPEAKER_03 39:03

No, it's just like it always happens.

SPEAKER_01 39:05

Niggas be buying me drinks, nigga. He don't get nothing in return. Thanks for the drink.

SPEAKER_03 39:10

It don't even be niggas. Like I anyway.

SPEAKER_01 39:13

Thanks for the drink, sucker.

SPEAKER_03 39:15

What she gonna sound like that. I hate y'all. Right. Right. Stop my voice. She just turned 75. Right. Sucker. And I smoke cigarettes. Like all of a sudden. But she she wanted, we were we ended up having espresso martinis. And we had got two. Okay. And then we were talking to the guy, the bartender, and she's like, oh yeah, we'll have two more. Our bill was$87. Yeah, that's good. Who are you drinking espresso martinis? Like, what are you doing?$87. Okay.

SPEAKER_00 39:50

That's the going rate, lady. The regular guy.

SPEAKER_03 39:53

I don't think we've ever spent over like$50, but that's and that's what I brought up. She was like, yeah, coffee. Coffee got them high tariffs. That shit was crazy. I feel like that was crazy. Like it's one thing if you have dinner and drinks, and you like at the at the restaurant, we had like a bottle of wine with our dinner. So that was like, whatever. That made sense.

SPEAKER_01 40:12

But$80. That bartender was like, damn, they got money. Now I I want y'all to realize that shit was about 20 minutes ago. She said she ain't had it like that. She just had dinner with a bottle of wine. Shut the fuck up. And then left dinner.

SPEAKER_03 40:28

Left dinner and spent$8 at a bar. No, I didn't. It was two of us.

SPEAKER_00 40:32

So you split it? I spent.

SPEAKER_03 40:33

Oh, okay. Yeah, we always split it. Damn. It's my best friend, but what the what? I ain't taking her out. Like.

SPEAKER_02 40:46

Not strong.

SPEAKER_01 40:47

Activate. She activated her pepping. I ain't paying for no I ain't paying for no beach.

SPEAKER_03 40:51

No, I'm small. That's my girl. But no, yeah, we split it. But that's normal. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 40:55

We used to.

SPEAKER_03 40:56

We do it once a month. That's our little thing.

Sharing Food And Protecting Your Plate

SPEAKER_01 40:58

I think as dudes, we just split the check.

SPEAKER_03 41:01

That's what we do.

SPEAKER_01 41:04

No, we split it. We split the check in the corner who got what. No, it's. Do you really? No, you're going to use my receipt. You get your own. Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 41:13

But I feel like guys don't share. Like when everything, we share with your.

SPEAKER_01 41:19

Let me get a bite of that. Like, hell no. I think it's probably these my wings. So you can't have a wing. Get your own goddamn wings.

SPEAKER_03 41:26

That's probably why. Because girls are going to share. If we order four things at the table, we're both eating all of them.

SPEAKER_01 41:32

I know. That's why it irritates the fuck out of me. When I order something I want, and then the two women at my house reach their hand in my. No, you got what the fuck you wanted over there.

SPEAKER_03 41:42

No, but you have that right there on the table. We're all the table. This is how you supposed to share at the table.

SPEAKER_00 41:47

I was going to say you generally buy spicy. No, I can't do that. I can't do that. But yeah.

SPEAKER_03 41:52

But you're supposed to let people try. Like I went to the biggest. No, the fuck you not.

SPEAKER_01 41:56

We all we all looked at the same menu. Why do we have to?

SPEAKER_03 42:02

Also, this week I went to dinner for my cousin's birthday. It was three girls in my little baby.

SPEAKER_01 42:06

Again, balling again.

SPEAKER_03 42:07

No, shut up.

SPEAKER_01 42:08

Eating out, balling. Wouldn't gas and garbage. No lie.

SPEAKER_03 42:12

I'm using, I'm trying to think of examples.

SPEAKER_01 42:15

Top five New York MCs. Okay, that's fine. We're not gonna lie.

SPEAKER_03 42:21

I hate y'all.

SPEAKER_01 42:22

Okay, you're trying to think of examples.

SPEAKER_03 42:24

No, I was just saying when we all sat at the table, we also it was like, oh, this is good. Let me try it. Oh, this is good. Here, you want to try it? Those are my cousins.

SPEAKER_01 42:31

Unless it was like Buka De Bepo or some shit. Yeah, the only time I do that is if we're at like a like a like a Thai food restaurant where the serving sides are meant to be shared. That's why you get the right. I don't do that shit. I order salmon, not you.

SPEAKER_03 42:48

And then we had a buttercake and we ate that all together.

SPEAKER_01 42:50

See, when when me and my wife first got together, I used to order my steak, you know, medium rare. I was like, oh, I'm safe. And then she's like, one day she got brain off the trash. She's like, that's actually good. This is what I'm saying. So now I'm like, I can't even order. There's something I can order that's safe that won't be tasted. Yeah. I gave up on that. I was just like, go for it. Like if the kids order mac and cheese, I know I'm eating.

SPEAKER_03 43:17

That's how I feel. When when I go out with my kids, they know we're gonna order, everybody's gonna order whatever, but everybody's gonna eat that.

SPEAKER_00 43:24

Do you at least like the mac and cheese? No.

SPEAKER_01 43:26

No, especially. It's trash. That shit trash. The one mac and cheese that that sucker free, then that shit, that shit was fire. The way Felix was eating that shit, I said, and I tried some of it. That shit.

SPEAKER_00 43:40

I'm so mad at that, because when I looked it up, that place didn't exist anymore. I was so mad.

SPEAKER_03 43:44

I gotta make you a macaroni cheese.

SPEAKER_01 43:47

I don't I don't want any. I don't want any. Why? I'm not a mac and cheese person.

SPEAKER_03 43:50

I was about to say my mac and cheese is fire. I'm pronounced mac and cheese.

Wrap-Up And Subscribe Reminder

SPEAKER_01 43:52

It doesn't matter whose mac and cheese it is. I'm not sure. I'm not a mac and cheese person. All right, guys. Episode 236. Yeah, you bring some candy yams.

SPEAKER_03 44:02

I bring both. Oh, they do together.

SPEAKER_01 44:03

We're just talking about food.

SPEAKER_03 44:05

They go together. Yams and mac and cheese? I got y'all next to the top.

SPEAKER_01 44:09

We'll look at that. Because we we recording this and like I don't know how long this is gonna last.

SPEAKER_00 44:13

Did you say 236 or 237? 236.

SPEAKER_01 44:16

So you said what yeah, we're gonna this is recorded. So you yeah.

SPEAKER_00 44:23

So, yeah, we're getting mac and cheese.

SPEAKER_01 44:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 44:26

So remember the number. And yams. And see when we get it. Macron and cheese, yams. It's gonna be episode three or two. I can put like some wings or something.

SPEAKER_01 44:35

We're gonna play that. I mean, go ahead and do some beef ribs, too.

SPEAKER_03 44:38

I said wings. Nigga. Did nobody say nothing about no goddamn ribs? What?

SPEAKER_01 44:46

I mean, if you want to do some beef ribs, some beef ribs, oxtails, you know. Yeah, we're doing the whole thing, you know. No, that's simple.

SPEAKER_00 44:54

Sorry for your man.

SPEAKER_01 44:55

All right, guys. I think I'm uh bug us out. Yeah. All right, y'all. We love y'all.

SPEAKER_00 45:00

Likes, like, subscribe, share, comment.

SPEAKER_01 45:02

All that shit. Till next time.

SPEAKER_00 45:04

Peace, peace.

SPEAKER_01 45:05

Peace.

SPEAKER_02 45:09

Sweaty. That's rap, y'all. That's that's how she wrote. So make sure you click like, subscribe. Tune in, we're on Australia platform. So until next time. Well hi lad you.